Breast cancer and tyres
By Kerri-Anne Kennerley · 30 Apr 2014
To understand why I’ll be overjoyed to see burly tyre-fitters dressing in pink this Friday, I have to first reveal some of my personal life. “You have cancer”... Those three little words sent my head and my world spiralling two years ago. I had no family history of the disease and I was regularly getting mammograms, so the news came as a complete shock.To put it simply, it felt like I was a balloon that had been pricked with a needle. I was instantly deflated. Then I looked over at John, my husband of 28 years, and it was like I was looking in a mirror. I could see he was experiencing the same feelings I was. Sucker-punched and deflated. As I reflect back upon that time in our lives, it makes me realise how vitally important a good support network is when life throws you a curve ball.I was lucky enough to have access to fantastic doctors as well as the unwavering support of the Australian community; this included my family, friends, and an amazing breast care nurse. But it was John’s support that had the greatest impact on my wellbeing.He was my pillar of strength, and my experience taught me that there’s not enough appreciation for men and the role they play in situations such as this.Sadly, today we commonly hear breast cancer stories in our communities, including the devastating ways the illness can impact families. While a small percentage of those diagnosed are indeed men, in most circumstances, the disease is considered a female illness.However, the reach of breast cancer certainly isn’t limited to women. The men in our lives, whether a husband, father, brother, uncle, or friend, are all part of the experience as they fiercely support their loved ones. So why do breast cancer and tyres go hand in hand? Friday May 2 is Pink Fitters Day -- an annual community initiative from Kumho Tyres Australia, where over 250 tyre dealerships from around the nation will fundraise and raise awareness for the McGrath Foundation.Yes, that’s right, hundreds of burly men dressing in pink to support the women they love and care for … does it get much better? Pink Fitters Day is an open opportunity for men (and a few female tyre fitters as well) to show their support for the women they love by doing something that isn’t typically considered very manly.The McGrath Foundation has an important message for all Australians, and that is to be breast aware. Initiatives like this help create awareness and support for the Foundation and the important work it does. Importantly, they also help spread the breast awareness message to communities where the topic isn’t often spoken about.No one ever plans to have breast cancer and no partner ever really knows what to do when the tidal wave of emotion and physical drama hits. We simply have to make it up as we go along. For me, when surgical options and treatment choices were offered – even though I knew I had to make the final decision – having a clearer mind than my own, in John, was a relief. I sometimes thought my brain was like an asteroid flying around the galaxy. I never knew when or where it would land or for how long.Today, I believe men are so much more aware and engaged with breast cancer than ever before. The McGrath Foundation has enabled this. When you see sports teams proudly wearing a pink shirt or holding a pink cricket bat it sends a strong message that it’s okay to get involved and to talk about this disease.So I encourage all those reading this, even if you don’t know someone who’s battled breast cancer, to wear pink and make a donation to the McGrath Foundation. When breast cancer is diagnosed it is not just a woman or person and their body that is affected, it’s the whole family. Support your mates and loved ones, by helping us share the McGrath Foundation’s message.You can get involved by visiting your local Kumho Tyre dealership to make a donation and buy merchandise, where all funds will go to the cause. Please help ensure that every Australian family experiencing breast cancer has access to a breast care nurse – no matter where they live or their financial situation. Find your nearest participating Pink Fitters Day dealership here.