I AM about to buy a car. I drive 20km to work each week day and do about 20km on a regular weekend. I love camping and have two teenaged children, both involved in sport. I have driven a RAV4, a Honda CR-V, a Mitsubishi Pajero and a Subaru and thought the Subaru was terrific. I like the height of the other three and probably favour that. I am looking at a 2001 or 2002 model.
SIT down and make a list of the musts and the wants for your car, then look at each. The first and most important thing is to decide how often you will go camping and how far off the beaten track you plan to go, if at all. I would choose the Subaru and I'm assuming here that you're talking about the Outback. It isn't as high as the others, but it's a much better road car than any of the four-wheel-drive wagons you list and it has good ground clearance, which means it is surprisingly adept at beating around the bush.
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